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Reply to "Judging the heck out of my friend for dating a guy she doesn't really like, and continually picking him over friends. "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I saw a little bit of my last relationship in this post. I was dating a guy who had some issues, including inattentive ADD and some minor hoarding. In my case, I stayed in part because I'm concerned that his issues stem from grief over his mother's death. I also worried that I was an important social outlet for him and he didn't have many. Ultimately it wasn't enough and I dumped him. Your friend may have complex reasons for sticking around. She may also be codependent. Either way, if you don't want him showing up, you probably need to stop inviting her. [/quote] Yes, I always invited her over and her daughter that I’m going to stop that because it’s just too awkward to say that you can come, but the boyfriend can’t. She is absolutely thinking that great sex equals a great relationship. She says they’re completely in love and that she totally loves him. (but also really hates these big parts of his personal personality so whatever.) I will step back and let it run its course. I suspect he is going to want to move in with her or have her move in with him before the end of the school year. He is going to want this locked away before the summer.[/quote]
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