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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don't want kids, why do you want to get married? Why not protect your finances from a low earning spouse who will not even contribute to house care? Unless he is a good cook, what are going to gain by marrying this person? My husband is also adhd and messy and though I care for him I wish everyday that I didn't have kids with him so I could just walk away. [/quote] My ADHD self missed the part of the original post where she said they don't want kids. Obviously, don't get married. There is all downside and zero upside to marrying a low-earning, messy man with ADHD. Just date for as long as you still like each other. If he's pushing for marriage but doesn't want kids, there is a good chance he sees OP as his future paycheck. Don't be that. [/quote]
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