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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s a story with a happy ending: -Deferred Cornell two years ago. This was the dream school. -Waitlisted in March. -Chose her school by May 1. Was offered a lot of scholarship money. -Then at the end of June, offered a transfer option from Cornell. Basically it’s a guaranteed entrance sophomore year. She had a great freshman year. Adjusted to college and managing her time in a less intense place. And we saved money a lot of money. She decided to follow through with the transfer option. Entered Cornell this fall and is enjoying it. Really likes her classes. In the end, it worked out. If she had decided to stay at her freshman school, I’d say the same this. It all worked out. [/quote] Congratulations! That’s wonderful!! How was her freshman year, knowing she was likely to transfer? Did she invest in joining clubs, meeting friends, being a part of the community? Or did it feel more transactional - doing well in her classes, but not connecting as much socially? Then same question in reverse at Cornell. How hard has it been to meet people and feel part of the community as a transfer student? I know my DD would be very concerned that “everybody already has a friend group” and it would be hard to connect and feel part of the community like everyone else. Related: Do Cornell sororities offer fall rush for transfer students? I know two boys who transferred to other schools and rushed first semester they got there, which helped a lot.[/quote]
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