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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I should not be that surprised, but people who idolize adoption are rarely birth parents. It is not uncommon to hear stories about adoptees becoming adoptive parents. I would be very interested in someone in the triad choosing to become a birth parent[/quote] I don't know about "choosing" but it is not uncommon in some of the Raising Kids with FASD ("Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder") social media groups to see instances where adoptive parents of kids impacted by FASD winding up having to raise their grandchildren due to the judgment and impulsivity issues that FASD impacted individuals often exhibit where they have children but are as incapable of raising them as their own birth parents were. My speculation is that neurotypical adult adoptees are probably, on average, more vigilant about birth control and planning pregnancies because they want to avoid being in the situation of their birth parents. [/quote]
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