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Reply to "How did you tell your spouse the marriage is over? Especially if abuse was present??"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I told him in front of a couples counselor. I said it was over and he needed to move out by the weekend. I told the counselor that I would step outside for 15 minutes and allow STBX to process with the therapist, and that when I came back, the only the I would be willing to discuss was how we would mutually tell our kids about the divorce. It was a real dilemma for him, because he couldn’t pressure me without looking like an ass in front of the therapist. I don’t know what went down when I left him alone with the therapist, but whatever it was, it was helpful. [/quote] That works well if he is cooperative but he doesn't actually have to move out, so if you have someone who isn't cooperative and doesn't want to move out of their home or doesn't have another place to go, then you end up still living with them, even though they now know you want a divorce. [/quote]
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