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[quote=Anonymous]You said your work is your kids. Are your children still preschool age? Are you a SAHM? I would go back to work and get your kids into daycare. You will need to increase your level of independence in order to provide for yourself and your kids. Child support is his portion and hopefully he pays but you need your own portion to support you and the kids. Once you have a job and the kids are in care during the day, you can contact agencies who can provide support with leaving and telling him. There are shelters you can stay in that don't have published addresses if you fear for your safety. I wouldn't tell him you want a divorce now while you live with him and are dependent on him for your basic needs. If he is an angry person, that will only add to the anger and I can't see it going well. [/quote]
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