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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce is no joke. Get couples counseling [/quote] Terrible advice. There’s no rehabilitation for abuse - do NOT go to couples counseling with an abuser OP.[/quote] There's not no rehabilitation for abuse. The batterer's intervention program in my area says close to a quarter of their participants don't re-offend by abusing to the point of it being criminal. And statistics show among those who don't get caught up in the system 8-9% can change for real - down to the heart, stopping verbal and emotional abuse. But less than 1 out of 10 ain't great. Pretty similar to the statistics for substance use disorders.[/quote] Op does not need to be one of the 9/10. She can, and is, leaving for her safety. Stop trying to encourage unsafe behaviors to women experiencing abuse![/quote]
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