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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have multiple addicts in my family and no, we do not pay for the rehab. Addiction is different than cancer, where everybody needs to help out. An addict needs to take responsibility for themselves to recover. Saving them only enables them.[/quote] This. I also have a sibling with an addiction problem, and the enabling IS the problem. If they don't take responsibility for themselves, they will not get better. So I would not pay, it won't work. Addicts can destroy many other lives as they fall. I think the OP is right to be wary of this plan. The family as a whole will be better served by having at least one, whole, healthy family system within it. [/quote]
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