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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No sleepovers. It takes days to recover, and we've got s$&t to do.[/quote]

Our DD just went to a sleepover this past Friday, 14 yr old girls (7 of them), and yup, they were up most of the night (hosting mom told us she didn't stop hearing voices, music or walking around until after 2:00am) but they were all picked up by 12:00 noon the next day and our DD was fine, no energy problems, and we got all the obligations/activities/work/events of the weekend done without a problem.

What in the world are your kids up to at sleepovers that "it takes days to recover" from them and you can't get ish done?? [/quote]

NP- Some teens have pretty good/early to bed sleep schedules and need them to function well the next day. There's really no shame in that.[/quote]

In general sure, and those teens maybe should get picked up after dinner instead of spending the night. But damning all sleepovers because "it takes days to recover" is ridiculous. I've got 3 kids (2 girls, 1 boy) and all were allowed sleepovers as were most in their friend groups. Overall they had great times, and to the degree anything that happened that concerned me, it was more what was discussed/revealed among the kids that made me worry a bit about other kids, but it was all real life tween/teen stuff and mostly I'm really glad they all had sleepovers and went to others.  They never stopped asking to go to them until they left for college (although big group sleepovers got less and less as they got to 10-12th grades).

Things that are just not compatible with the personality/habits of my kids, I can say "that doesn't work for my kid" without damning the situation or activity altogether or acting like every kid has the same challenge with it that my kid does.[/quote]

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