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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No and agree this isn’t a man vs woman thing. Most people do not change. They might sincerely attempt to change and you could see success in that regard, but over time they will revert to their previous state. DH and I have done therapy, we’ve had our share of come to Jesus conversations, but ultimately we always end up right back to where we started with the same behaviors and issues. Since I’ve accepted I cannot change him and the only person I have control over is me, I actively make the choice to ignore (mostly) the small stuff. [/quote] This is the answer. You simply cannot control other people, no matter how much you may want to. But you do control yourself and your reactions. You choose what you feel and what’s important to you. It is tempting and infinitely easier to blame others for how we feel. But ultimately, how we feel and what’s important we do is our responsibility. And yes, I know what forum I’m in 😂[/quote]
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