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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are going to end up divorced from this guy. You should go ahead and do it while the kids are very young.

That said, you need to figure out what kind of career you can obtain. Do you have a college degree? Should you go back to school and get a masters before you divorce? You need to start getting very strategic.

And your husband isn’t going to actually starve the children. He ignores them right now because he knows they will go find you. I’m not saying his care of them will be optimal, but there would need to be a lot more red flags before I would think he is literally so abusive he would starve them.

You also need to go to therapy to figure out why you have put up with all this and why on earth you brought a second and then third child into this madness.[/quote]

OP here. Yes, I have wanted to go to counseling for a while now, I just greatly struggle with being able to do so because I am swamped 100% of the time.

I know it's not an excuse, just trying to provide a bit of context.

And hindsight is 20/20, right? Things weren't *this* bad until #3 came along and stuff has just gotten really bad. That and probably a combination of me maybe not minding as much because I had more time and energy with less kids.

I don't know if he is secretly depressed or something or what. More kids, more pressure from a financial standpoint, his sibling got a really big promotion and I think my husband is secretly feeling intimidated, like why hasn't he advanced more or something, they are both in sales so there's a lot to compare between the two.[/quote]

Whether or not you are planning divorce, you need a career plan starting now. [/quote]

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