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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's the opposite. The number of divorced men who want to jump into the next marriage asap is creepy. It's like they're racing their ex to the altar. Maybe it's an ego thing - to prove they weren't the problem in the last marriage.

If you mean highly attractive, desirable men with good personalities, then they're probably confirmed bachelors. It's really hard to imagine changing your whole life for a person the longer you've actually lived that life. 
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I’m not sure that it is an ego thing, so much as it is a hmm-there-is-no-dinner-ready-and-no-one-planned-holiday-decorations-and-I-am-going-on-travel-for-work-and-have-no-clean-socks thing. Even if it isn’t this conscious, there has been a downgrade in lifestyle that they didn’t see coming— because they didn’t pay any attention to how much work their wife was doing. Probably part of why they got divorced in the first place. So you probably don’t want one of these. [/quote]

Yea, you don’t want my exH. He cheated on me with a work colleague and used to poke me for a lesser career than his. She dumped him right after our divorce. 
Guess what ? He’s back to playing house with a woman who is like me. Even lesser career, but cooks and cleans for him [/quote]

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