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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This advice is bizzare. Put your pay check in an individual checking account and sit down and agree to who is paying what and each pay those bills directly or put enough in the joint to cover your share.[/quote] Ya that’s what I’m doing but I find that two qualities I hate in a human is that they are controlling and a spendthrift and my DH is both. He’ll be a train wreck to live with once we’re on a fixed income in retirement. So a divorce is in our future. I can suck it up for the kids but when we do divorce, I’ll have to give him half of what I’ve saved, which will leave me vulnerable. I will have an inheritance and my parents have done everything they can to lock it up for me and the kids. It’s basically a spendthrift trust. It’s not enough to retire on though. I also find the money issues have killed my attraction to him. We sleep in separate rooms and I avoid him as much as possible. I have no respect for him. [/quote]
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