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[quote=Anonymous]Respectfully, anyone asking what their prospects are has low prospects. The things that make a person attractive beyond superficiality, like confidence, integrity, a sense of humor, those are things you either know you have or don't have enough self-esteem to validate for yourself. Advertising your physical stats like you're just a body isn't attractive. If you're asking what kind of treatment you deserve because you're overweight, well, some jerk will probably be happy to show you.

The phrase "know your worth" gets thrown around a lot but it's important. Do YOU like your body? Do you feel comfortable in your skin? Don't date until you do, because you'll probably settle for the first "good enough" person who doesn't treat you like total garbage (at least, not at first). It's critically important for people looking for more than a one-nighter to value themselves and understand what they're bringing to the proverbial table. If it's not money and looks, which are a pathetically low bar, what is it? What makes you valuable?

Stop seeing yourself as an object and start enjoying and appreciating the things beyond base physicality that make you who you are. Respect yourself and you'll attract people who respect you. [/quote]

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