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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can train yourself. There are self help books on the market.[/quote] Can you? I think the PP got it right: you either have it or you don't. [/quote] You can't necessarily learn charisma but you can make yourself more likeable. Some things I got from the aforementioned book are to let people talk about themselves, make them feel important, say their name (I used to really struggle with that), and if you think something nice about them by all means share it! Don't keep good thoughts to yourself. I was born with very poor social skills (very spectrum family history) but skated by on being smart and funny. Now as a grown woman I needed to develop them. It's no longer cute to be charmingly selfish.[/quote]
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