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Reply to "My friends are telling me to be mean to men"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think “mean” is the right word but I think every woman should say “no” to a few small things early in the relationship without justifying or apologizing. So along the lines of “No, let’s meet at 7, not 9.” “No, I don’t want to meet for a drink; let’s do coffee.” The problem is that a lot of women are super accommodating up front and then they get 6 months into a relationship before they realize that the guy they are with doesn’t like them enough to do any of the work. A little pushback early in the relationship is a great way to weed out people who can’t handle you having or expressing needs. [/quote] 100% this! Not mean, but perhaps to a doormat with no boundaries it feels mean, so I can see why OPs friends phrased it this way. OP, it's important to see how men react to a simple "no". [/quote]
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