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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just reapproach her calmly, without anger or negative emotion. She will otherwise latch into your negative emotion and respond to that. Tell her that after 20 years together, you need to be honest with each other. Tell her you want to understand what happened, what she was thinking and feeling. If she still can’t have a mature, honest discussion, then I think you have a choice to make. Plenty of marriages can weather an affair. But it’s what happens after the affair that makes the difference. [/quote] You’re just going to get trickle truth. And if she’s still actively cheating (very possible) she will just take more steps to conceal her behavior. She already made her choice. OP doesn’t really have a real choice to make. Accept it’s over, proceed from there. You can never recover from accepting being cucked. She will never respect that, nor should she.[/quote]
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