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[quote=Anonymous]I noticed you mentioned nothing about your SIL other than her family has passed. Fwiw, holidays can be hard when your parents have died. And not just the first year, you don't know until you know, it's a lot of big emotions. Maybe she struggles with the holidays, maybe she has fond holiday memories and likes to recreate them with her kids? Maybe she doesn't like the vibe of your holiday gatherings? You barely mentioned her in your post so maybe you leave her out of other things too? Regardless, it sounds like your brother is doing what's best for his family. When my brother's kids were young, he and his wife had very specific ideas about what the day should look like. I felt a little left out initially but it is what it is, every family gets to decide what their traditions are.[/quote]
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