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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is worse than 80/20. More like 95% to 5%.  See the chart from Tinder which shows that only 5% of men get all the matches from women

You may think it is “unrealistic” that a girl who is say a 2 out of 10 is saying that you need to be six feet tall, seven figure income, six pack abs and six inches in the pant or don’t bother even messaging her. That she wouldn’t even consider the average guy, her being well below average. But the truth is the top 5% of guys is willing to “hit it” with her. So she thinks she has a shot at landing that top 5% guy. So she ends up chasing the top 5% of guy hoping to catch him. Sadly for her she will find he “won’t commit” and “treats her bad”, etc. Sure he may go through the motions and words of commitment but really he is just “hitting it”. In reality that top 5% guy just is banging all the girls and only going to “hit it” and be in a “friends with benefits” with her and many other girls at once and will not commit to any girl. He will just keep banging all the girls. He is the top 5%. What is true for our 2 out of 10 example above is true for girls with higher (and lower) ratings as well. This is the current day dating landscape.

OP is probably looking for one of these 5% guys by her post "I’m not fat but can lose 5-10 lbs.  On hinge I receive no likes and when I do they’re from…fat guys or ugly guys or truck drivers or socially awkward guys." [/quote]

[b]I have never heard a woman say that she wants this 6-6-6-6.  That sounds like a male fantasy to me.  [/b]
I will say that most women probably want one 6, but mostly just want a man who is kind and pays attention to them.

I don’t know, but I’m guessing that if one of the guys that messaged OP was like, “I saw your profile, and I really liked it.  I really dig turtleneck sweaters.  You seem really genuine and I would like to get to know you better…” she might be into it.  Even if he was working class or whatever.

Unfortunately, most of these are more like, “I’m passing through your town tomorrow on my big rig, so I’m reaching out to all the women in the city limits.  You DTF?  Also, do you have a shower I can use?”  
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Don't listen to what women say, watch their actions.  [/quote]

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