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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make your holidays fun and exciting and not on the actual day. It will be helpful for when your child marries and potentially Christmas is split 4 ways. [/quote]

Seriously. Healthcare workers and many others who don’t have a choice about working holidays do it every year.[/quote]

OP and I hear what you’re saying but this isn’t a thread about healthcare workers and their sacrifices and I’m not a healthcare worker. People in some cultures don’t celebrate Christmas and don’t even have the day off, but it’s not like that’s relevant to the question I’m asking.

Instead of telling me that the days don’t matter or that other people have it worse, I am trying to find someone who can tell me how they managed it when the days do actually matter to them. If it didn’t matter to me I wouldn’t be here asking my question and would have already arbitrarily divided everything up and calls it a day![/quote]

OK, well, then here’s what’s relevant. The law heavily, heavily favors 50/50 in custody, including holidays. So if your ex wants Christmases, expect to get half.[/quote]

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