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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I should have specified that the water bottle had something like tea or juice in it. Definitely not water. I will stay out of it and not say anything to her. I’ll keep my judgmental thoughts to myself! [/quote] Yeah, this is trashy. Cannot believe people are defending this. As a mom, I’d keep my comments to myself- and hope this is a short lived relationship. Even for a teen- this is a bad move and shows he is an idiot [/quote] +100 She's not entitled to a gift, but if he chooses to give one, it has to be a reasonable gift... not a used, unwashed water bottle, good grief. Or even a used washed one. Come on. He's still learning, but he won't learn unless she tells him this isn't acceptable to give your girlfriend essentially a piece of trash (I know, I know, someone will reply and say "Oh, people on my buy nothing group grab these all the time!). And I wouldn't want DD to learn that she must accept any piece of crap because it's from a guy and he's just trying. It sounds like he didn't know what to give her so just grabbed his mom's water bottle! [/quote] Agree. But I don’t think he was trying. He had to know he was giving her used water bottle isn’t appropriate for a birthday present. [b]I almost would question if he did it intentionally as a way to devalue her and mess with her psychologically.[/b] [/quote] Yes! This is such a bizarre out of left field "gift" that I'd assume some weird power play as well. [/quote]
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