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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a troll. Nobody says this: "I reiterated that I wanted to get married again and that if I do, I’ll change my will to include my new wife but that she and her brother will be taken care of." He had not even met anyone yet. This was hypothetical. 
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[b]I told my daughter four different times about wanting to get remarried, in hopes of preparing her. The first time was in February when I initially told her I wanted to remarry. Second time we had a gathering to say a few words on the one-year anniversary of my wife’s passing. The third time was in October when I told her I was selling the house. The fourth time was today. [/b]

I didn’t mentioned the will until the third and time discussing getting married again. It was a natural time to bring it up since I was telling her that I was going to sell the house. It made sense, in my opinion, to bring it then (October) and today. [/quote]

OP, please re-read what you wrote here. It seems that you are much more focused on the getting remarried part and that is your main priority. I say this gently, but in your grief and loneliness could you be prioritizing being married again over the specific person that you might actually remarry? If so, that is a very dangerous approach for any relationship. You basically stated your goal before even meeting your gf so it is not unfair for others to view your actions as rash. Please proceed carefully.[/quote]

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