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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister took an internship she really wanted so she left her two toddlers at home with her working husband for a summer. He was resentful and the infidelity began then. Fast forward 10 years later, sister again takes a job a plane flight away. She is gone 3/4 days per week and home for the rest. The kids are teens at this point. The divorce that was always in the background came into the foreground. Because of her job, she lost primary custody of her children. Her husband worked near home (silicon valley) and ended up with full custody and the house. Her children took that opportunity to go no contact with her. Her career faltered. Today, she has no career and no stable home. So dear OP, be careful what you wish for.[/quote] There’s definitely more to this story. Teens don’t choose to go no contact with their mom simply because she is working a plane ride away 3-4 days a week.[/quote] They went no contact because she has personality issues. The kind of personality issues that were at play when she left her toddlers to a spouse who disagreed with the plan. The same personality that decided it was OK to leave her middle schoolers for her silicon valley tech industry spouse (read: long hours) to deal with while she pursued her career. It wasn't for many of money. It was for personal self fulfillment. [/quote]
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