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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait so have you been looking for a job during these 43 days or just doing nothing??? Here’s what you need to do within the day:

1. Make a plan for applying for new jobs (will send out X applications per day or per week).

2. Outline the house work or child care you can help with while you are out of work.

3. Apologize profusely. Tell her everything, including two above items and ask for input. If you are bad at communicating, write it down in a letter and give it to her and sit with her and answer her questions. Do not be defensive. I repeat. Do not be defensive. Apologize and take ownership of what you do.

4. Discuss with her if you can pick up a part time job while you job hunt or if it’s better to focus on the job hunt. This is a joint decision.

5. Do better. Do not let the unemployment paralyze you.   [/quote]

been trying the entire time. okay maybe not everyday coz it's incredibly frustrating. got one intv 30 days in for a very good opening through a friend but didn't get to 2nd round unfortunately. finally on day 40-ish got an offer for retail like position - part time super low pay no benefit but i took it. had to. onboarded on day 43.

one DD in HS so not much help needed. kinda felt bad i didn't cook more. know i could have.[/quote]
Yeah, you just lied to your wife and childs face every day for over a month. You didn't even do extra cooking or housework while lying to your family? You seriously just left all the chores to your wife and child while you lied to their face? [/quote]

Yeah I’m not proud of any of this but just wanted to share that people do in certain circumstances do sh*t like this as incredibly dumb as it sounds [/quote]

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