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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be kind. We all want our kids to find their people in college. With iPhones, casual hanging-out and chatting in common rooms and dining halls isn’t as much of a thing at a lot of colleges now. Kids are trying to join clubs not only to get a leg up in the job market but also to find their people. [/quote]

I understand that. I really do.

Encourage your kid to try clubs that are not focused on professional goals or restrictive social circles.

For example, there are a ton of service clubs or opportunities at all of these schools. These groups are focused on activities that do not require prior experience, achievement, or connections.

Doing a common activity together is a great way to meet people - arguably more so than just attending meetings. I truly don't understand why parents aren't encouraging their kids to participate in one of the many service clubs or activities that these colleges work so hard to create. So many are low commitment. Just sign up to help with a one-day service project. See what you think. If you like the experience or the people, come back to do another one. Take it a step at a time.

There are a ton of options out there. If your kid doesn't like the artificial scarcity or exclusivity created by the selective clubs, encourage them to be more resourceful. [/quote]

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