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[quote=Anonymous]I try to read the cues and match people's energy and interest. So, right now it sounds like her cues would suggest backing away some. Wait longer to textback and keep it briefer. She may cycle back to wanting to be closer, but if you keep trying to get the closeness back it won't work. I used to get more offended, but I notice I ebb and flow with people too. Sometimes it's just a matter of one friend relates so well to my current stressors, so we become closer supporting eachother. I am overwhelmed so much these days that I can go only give so much energy to people, but I still value the friendships with those where we are in an eb period. Give it time and don't take it personally. She will most likely flow back and it may just be during a time when you need your other friends more. [/quote]
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