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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm sorry for what you're going through. Adult friendships can be really confusing sometimes.  Rather than wonder what's going on with her or distance yourself from the friendship, I would suggest gently trying to find out what's going on in the friendship with a text message that expresses your concern that things aren't as close as they used to be.

I would suggest in a few weeks texting something along the lines of: Hey, I've been thinking about you and noticing lately we haven't been texting as much as we used to.  I just wanted to check in--is everything okay?  I know things can come up so I'm happy to be a listening ear or support you in any way. If not, and things have just gotten busy for you--no worries.  I will look forward to re-connecting when you are able to.  If you have time to meet up for coffee in the next few weeks that would be great!  I'm generally free Saturday mornings.  Hope to connect with you soon!

I think the important thing here is that you don't want to distance yourself from the friendship too early without checking in with your friend. Checking in gives you important information.  If she doesn't respond to your text, no answer is also an answer.  If that happens I would probably match the energy she is putting in and focus my time on other friendships.

I also have a question: I have heard other women talking about sending each other memes by text.  What is this all about?  I have never sent a meme to anyone nor received a text meme, so I'm curious about that.  What is the point of doing that?  When I text friends/acquaintances I like to have actual conversations by text, so I'm wondering what's the point of sending memes?  I don't get it.[/quote]

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