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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is depressing. Reminds me of planning my milestone birthday trip with my now ex-husband. He picked the destination, one I'm not that interested in, and then insisted we get lavish accommodations that I didn't want to spend money on, nominally "for me." We broke up before the birthday, the trip he wanted was cancelled, and I took my kids to Disney and stayed in dirt-cheap accommodations. And I was so happy. Controlling narcs have a way of seeming like the good guy because they're doing something that's objectively "nice", and it's easy to get caught up in it. The key is: it's not nice or loving to give your partner something they don't actually want, and to ignore what they say they do want. Even if what the narc prefers to give them is "better." [/quote] DH: makes reservations for dinner at DW’s favorite restaurant. DCUM: You must divorce that controlling narcissist.[/quote]
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