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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: 
SHE wanted the foster cats. We as a family agreed we would help by entertaining them, and buying supplies plus driving them to the vet and meeting up with adopters. Her sister already does more than we as a family agreed on. Her sister sometimes feeds them and cleans the litterbox when that is my oldest daughters responsibility. I told my oldest that if she continues on with her bad attitude, we will not be fostering anymore in the future and she said that was really unfair since she was doing all the work and she enjoys fostering cats. [/quote]

Wow, this does not help your case. You seem like you are working hard to anger her. She seems like a great daughter who sometimes needs help. As I would assume you sometimes need. Do you ever need help with cooking, taking out trash, etc? Families help and support each other!

How are you going to handle real issues when they come up? I think you need to decide if you want a strong relationship with your daughter or if you just want power over her. But the strong-arming like you are doing is going to cause her to separate from you as she gets older and into college and adulthood. [/quote]

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