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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you outlive his mom, then he will probably transfer that doting on to you. Will you like that, or then complain about feeling smothered? [/quote]
NP here. This is a huge lie. Clearly you have not seen what happens when a deeply enmeshed mama's boy loses his mother.

If OP outlives his mother, then he will be extremely resentful towards OP for having lived when he'd rather OP be the one who died while his mother remained alive. The fact that OP had nothing to do with his mother's death won't change his anger towards OP for being the wrong female authority figure who survived. He will also deify his mother and use that as an excuse to further hate OP for not comparing to that false image. Last, the grief of his mother's death will break the dam holding back all the suppressed anger he had towards his mother for dominating him. But because he has been trained never to be angry with his mother, he will project this anger onto OP and hate OP even more.

Ask me how I know. Men who are too weak and self-infantilizing to draw healthy boundaries with their mothers are and will always be worthless. They are damaged beyond repair, having been trained literally from birth to be broken.[/quote]

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