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[quote=Anonymous]These people who can't control their walk speed to match their partner... as you both walk together, does the distance between you increase steadily over the walk?  If not, then you ARE walking the same speed as the partner who is behind - you're just walking in front - yes, you CAN control that easily. No, it's not phsycially painful, it really isn't.

If you're space is increasing over time and you decide you can't control it, well, you will lose out on a lot of connection/intimacy with your partner. May not feel like a big deal to you now, but later, you won't even know why things aren't as good. They may not divorce you, but it will create a chasm.

Look at parents walking with their small kids. The kids have little legs - do you see the parent walking 10 feet in front and the toddler by themselves 10 feet behind..for the whole walk?  No of course not, the parent adjusts their pace.  It can be done. If you don't do this for your partner, the love erodes whether anyone admits/recognizes or not.

Now if you talk about it, and your partner is totally good with never walking side by side with you, then it could work.[/quote]

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