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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d change your mindset that you will need to invite or initiate a lot. I’d arrange a low stakes but regular invites. “Come over for pizza and the game, don’t bring a thing!” Or “we’re lighting the firepit tonight, come make some smores!” And then do your plan whether anyone comes over or not. Same with the brewery. I would have just blasted a bunch of the moms you know with the invite, and proceeded to take my family with no expectations anyone else will come.

Half the battle is just making the invite. Yes it might be one sided for a bit, but the friends you’re really going to click with will enjoy it. [/quote]

Excellent advice. This is what I do. There will be three or four events in a row where nobody bites and then a weekend where we have three events. People are busy. Law of averages and all that.

The birthday party circuit will help fill up the calendar, but I gently advise you to stop using time with others to fill up an internal hole.[/quote]

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