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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think they like the attention that all this planning gives them. [/quote] This! You need to stop feeding the beast and catering to him! Stop caring if he’s offended. Being a good host does not mean falling over yourself for every whim. Think, Ma’am this is a Hyatt not the Four Seasons. Also you probably need to let go of the fantasy in your mind of how wonderful these bonding experiences will be. You don’t bond over a visit. You don’t form or change relationships over a visit. You either enjoy them in the moment or you let the crap roll off your back and hold to your boundaries while you check the obligation box.[/quote]
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