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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. The don’t want to meet men who don’t want to meet a woman my age. Easy filtering of men who won’t be intellectually compatible with me.[/quote]

You are missing my point. They might have a wrong impression about how women your age look like, simply because they see all the lying profiles of other women. So let’s say you are 55, and they are looking at profiles of women who are actually 65 biological age. They think “oh, a 55 yo woman looks too old to me”.

So in fact the only way for you to meet men closer to your own age (by probability) would be also misstating your age. 
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What will happen when you meet them and they discover that you lied about your age?[/quote]

She'll be okay if she connects with another liar.
Maybe she'll update her profile to say she's looking for a guy who doesn't see lying as a dealbreaker.[/quote]

How come disclosing  age before exchanging messages is “lying”? The only thing OP gets is to overcome the  filters abused by other users [/quote]

It's not true because the guy created a filter to look for women who are 45 or younger. Your profile came up as a match. Now you're revealing that you're actually 53. He will clearly see that you lied about your age in your profile. That's dishonest. That's a lie.
You may be 53 but look like 45, but you are still 53.
People use age filters for various reasons; looks aren't the only factor.[/quote]

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