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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean "He gets overwhelmed with a list"?  A list of simple household chores is too much for him? Cleaning up the kitchen or vacuuming a few rooms is not difficult work. Has he always been this lazy?[/quote]

It will take him all day. He says he doesn’t have time to feed the cats because he was cleaning the kitchen. All day?! I can’t make sense of this.

I also would love to keep him busy and off his phone but he doesn’t ENJOY sorting and cleaning. He really, really needs to clean his tool box area and home office.

I do appreciate the sincere responses. This is unbelievably stressful but I can’t help think that sitting on his phone all day is helping. Wouldn’t a big task help keep his mind and body busy and give him a decent sense of pride?

He has boxes downstairs that have been untouched for 15 years full of stuff. He now has 6 hours a day…he’ll say things like “well I can’t do anything of this because I don’t have a file cabinet” so I tell him to go to goodwill and get a file cabinet and he doesn’t. Then everything sits there.[/quote]

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