Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Dealing with GF who is a widow vs. divorced and her kids/my kids/grandkids"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly is it she wants you to do that you're not doing for your own kids?[/quote] Her kids/grandkids are all 30/60/90-minute drives away, less than half as far as mine. We go to every possible event with them. Ratio of interaction is like 20:1 vs. mine who are twice as far away or more.[/quote] Why are you going to all those events for children that are not yours? She can go to those events and you should prioritize spending more time with your family.[/quote] OP here. This could be very helpful. I don’t like just taking off and abandoning her, so going in my family’s direction exactly when she’s going in her’s could be a win-win. Of course if there’s something really special she wants me to go to then it would be not so great to gin up a trip of my own. I’m not thinking she’ll be thrilled about this symmetry though.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
