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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s what will happen: Grandma may come a few times, but will eventually stop. Ex-dh will spend less and less time with the kids because of his work travel. Been there — super intense custody negotiation and then in practice nothing. [/quote] Yep. My XH checked out almost immediately, but got intense about "his rights as a father." Has he ever once taken his full custody time? Never. Has he ever taken the extra time I have offered when his schedule required him to bail on our kids during his regularly scheduled time? Never. Do I ever point any of this out to him? Nope. I just take the win. So much of this stuff is about pride and saving face. Unless I really needed the money from extra child support, I would just happily take the extra time for the long haul and not worry about renegotiating. Everybody wins.[/quote]
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