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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Had you left the stove on with the pot still simmering on it but not told him OR
 
Did he come downstairs to a pot that was not on the stove and full of a murky, dirty looking liquid?

Was he cleaning up the kitchen?

I know everyone thinks that every husband is an abuser and psychobabble gets thrown around - and you have written this in a way that ensures that happens. Would he write it the same way? Without being a fly on the wall, I take all these my husband is the worst human on the planet and I am an absolute saint who never does anything wrong but he treats me like he is Satan himself posts with a gran of salt.

When men complain about abusive wives, the responses are always that only abusers complain about being abused and that the one saying they are abused is the abuser and is responsible. [/quote]

It was on the stove cooling after I had just turned it ofd. I believe he honestly did not know I was making stock and so he dumped it out. That is frustrating but easy to forgive. The part I found infuriating was his reaction.[/quote]

Ok.  It does seem like a big communication failure.  Next time OP keep DH in the loop, and examine your own reactions to his actions.  I doubt you were calm about this.[/quote]

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