Reply to Need an outside perspective

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Need an outside perspective "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I just want to know, was there something wrong with the way I reacted? Am I in the wrong in any way? Do I have some accountability in this interaction?

I feel like I had a normal reaction given the mistake.

Was I supposed to react differently?[/quote]

I said you both had bad communication. I live with a house full of people who don’t read my mind- so there is no way I would have left a kitchen project without telling them what it was and not to touch it. When someone ruins a kitchen project, even unintentionally, they should say sorry. But if I believe it was unintentional, I wouldn’t keep doubling down looking for a fight.[/quote]

OK, she didn't tell her DH what she was doing.  But would your DH just throw out food that is being prepared on the stove because you didn't tell him specifically not to?  He should recognize it as food, shouldn't he?  He should know not to randomly throw out food, shouldn't he?[/quote]

It’s stock for crying out. The color of dirty water. Everyone here could have been clearer, including OP.[/quote]

I know what stock looks like, but doesn’t it generally smell pretty good?  As in identifiable as food?  When I make stock it is clearly not “dirty water.”  Also, why would someone leave dirty water simmering on the stove?  It’s clearly food.  But I don’t think OP has given us the full story.[/quote]

Not to OP’s husband, no.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics