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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious before you all had kids with these monsters, did you even think about how you were bringing kids into crappy marriages?[/quote]

Hah. May your smugness come back to bite you.

The short answer, as you likely already know, is that people change. Or they can no longer keep on the mask after a few years. Or they have mental health breaks. Or mid-life crises. Or they snap.[/quote] Seriously. My ex's financial success went to his head which happened after we had kids. He's that guy who has to let you know he has GROUP ONE BOARDING. The guy I married and had kids with was happy to be able to afford a plane ticket in Economy.[/quote]

lol did we divorce the same guy?! Have had this exact convo![/quote] OMG there's an epidemic of these guys. But thanks to my legal fees which I charge to my airline credit card I now have GROUP TWO boarding! So there! My therapist and I have talked about this a lot, and you're totally correct - that GROUP ONE behavior came home with him, too. She has helped me see that we were heading in totally different directions - the luxury life wasn't what I was seeking and the more I looked inward to work on myself, the more he seemed to crave that external validation. Looking inward isn't pretty but I sure am a lot more at peace than I was during my marriage to GROUP ONE[/quote]

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