Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Jobs and Careers
Reply to "How would you handle this co worker? "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not sure of the answer but I just wanted to share an anecdote of an awesome seasoned woman coworker and my clueless/sexist boss. She didn’t work on his team but we had some sort of overlapping project. She came to a meeting with some personal handwritten notes she had made and notes added from the meeting. Like, her personal notes - she was not the meeting minute taker. He said, “Oh that’s so great Larla - could you email your notes to me?” Larla: (sweet as pie) Oh, no, sorry they are handwritten. Dumb boss: “Well maybe you could take a picture and email to me?” Larla: (still sweet as pie) “Oh no, I am sorry, I don’t know how to do that on my work phone. (at this point I was looking on in awe) Dumb boss: Could you make a photo copy for me? Larla: “Oh I just won’t have a chance for that. Here, why don’t you take a picture! That was such a great idea.” [/quote] So she made herself look stupid in order to avoid being helpful? Yeah, what a masterclass in fighting sexism. [/quote] She trained Dumb Boss that she wouldn’t do his secretarial work. She didn’t look any more stupid than Dumb Boss looked lazy and clueless. He wasn’t her boss and he was out of line to ask her to make him copies or take notes for him. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics