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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of the most difficult things I’ve learned in dating post divorce as a woman is to let go really nice men who were not sexually compatible with me. I felt like I was committing self rape for the sake of not being alone. 
I’m well aware how compatibility feels and I experienced  it with 4 partners . It’s very rare for me and it’s a complex combination of behavioral, social and physical traits [/quote]

NP. Can you speak more to this and what you learned?[/quote]

I have a physical “type”, I’m visual. I tried to date men who were not my type when they treated me very nice, but I just couldn’t get aroused when it got to the sex.

Also he needs to have a certain  depth and not misogynistic. Chemistry takes 4-5 dates to build : going places, talking about things, listening to music together.

When sex was rushed (2-3 dates) without doing something meaningful before that, it affected things negatively long term in my head. As if he got exposed too soon, and I was never able to grow into them  after. It became too mechanical too soon, not romantic and these encounters were meaningless to me.

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