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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sex stops @ peri. Most men don’t know this (or figure it out too late).[/quote] So I thought I was in peri because of hot flashes and hormonal swings (mid 40s) but maybe not because what I'm finding is an incredibly sharp uptick in my sex drive- every day would be great. Or is this a swan song???[/quote] Honestly, I think the vast majority of women complaining about a lower sex drive are women who have been with the same man for 20 years. Women simply are NOT wired to be with the same man that long. So many of us who have divorced or stepped outside of our marriages find we are more sexual than ever, and we just cannot bring ourselves to be intimate with our husbands anymore. Women protect themselves from harm in this way. My guess is that you have a really great, emotionally safe husband if that is what you are experiencing. [/quote] Could be for a few, but otherwise no; you are wrong about it not being hormonal. And reduced libido in peri makes logical sense in terms of evolution. [/quote]
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