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[quote=Anonymous]You are not being unreasonable at all.

I think you need to do something drastic.

File for separation now. Move into the guest bedroom, check with your lawyer but I think this counts for a legal separation.

Tell him that if you divorce is up to him but you’re not going to sacrifice your son’s future so he can play video games and work on hobbies. There are options out there. He could substitute teach and earn money that way. He could also apply at Target, Starbucks, Costco, etc. Even if the stores don’t call back, I know for a fact they take everyone with a college degree who can pass a background check to substitute teach. He could be making over 2,000k a month which would cover your son’s therapy. He doesn’t want to. That’s a fact you can’t un-know.

If he wants to stay married he can find a marriage counselor and set it up.

If he wants to stay married he needs to get ANY job NOW

If he wants to stay married he needs to take on household responsibilities.

Doing nothing means he wants to divorce and he will get what he wants in one year when the separation period is up. Nothing short of a separation is going to make him wake up. (Maybe not even that, but it’s worth a shot) All you have left is the ultimatum. [/quote]

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