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Reply to "If your spouse works a lot, how do you manage expectations about your own availability?"
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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, I applaud you for taking time for yourself given what sounds like a very busy schedule you have with a job and being the primary parent. That is so important. It saddens me that your DH however doesn't value that. It suggests at minimum that he is not cognizant of your needs, or worse that he simply doesn't care about them. It is fundamentally inconsiderate for him to get upset at YOU for not being available for him on call. You need to explain to him that since he is so rarely available, it is not fair for him to ask you to drop everything when he is available. Either he wants to spend time with you and he commits to it, or he accepts that this is a difficult season of life for your marriage and he is going to have to accept that. [/quote]
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