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[quote=Anonymous]Finding proof allowed me to see the true dimensions of what I was dealing with. My exDH is a good liar and gaslit me hard and long. To this day he has never admitted the full scope of what I know nor apologized in any way. It was not just one affair, but many different types. He also had a secret drinking and substance abuse problem. I saw emails to his APs that were deeply manipulative of them and described me and our relationship in vastly different terms than he described to me.  Snooping allowed me to figure out all of that and definitively cut off the relationship and maintain full physical custody of my kids and a better financial settlement than he initially offered.

I’m not sure why some PPs think that women who don’t immediately confront and end the relationship are low on self-esteem.  I have enough self esteem that I wanted the truth. I knew I wasn’t getting it from him, and that I would have to take matters into my own hands to get the truth.  Knowledge is power.  [/quote]

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