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[quote=Anonymous] If she has all her faculties, she gets to make poor decisions. Even if she reported this, not sure it would go anywhere without evidence. All you do is see if she is willing to say you will install the Blink cameras. Make sure you can legally do this. If she refuses it, you detach. I would not engage with her complaints emotionally. Calmly state you care, you want her to install cameras for evidence, but she gets to decide. Then set a boundary that it's too painful to hear about when she has insists on doing nothing. You are getting sucked into dramatics and then angry at people here who are pointing out different views. Don't scapegoat people here and simply deal with the issue. Let her chose to gather evidence or not and then you need to accept the messiness.It's not want you want for her, it makes you angry and worried, but it's not your choice.[/quote]
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