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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Once you're that far gone, you won't believe even the most obvious "proof". You either respect yourself enough to leave or you don't. [/quote]

By all means, keep arguing with the lived experience of women on this thread. It’s a good look.

- Another women who pulled the plug the day after I found the proof [/quote]

You're arguing with someone who simply did the work on herself instead of demanding "proof" from a suspected cheat. so, i mean, do that, if it makes you feel better about your wasted time or whatever, but you don't have the high ground you seem to think you do.[/quote]

Who on earth is looking for “high ground” here? This isn’t a competition of who left a horrible relationship best. Some people (many, myself included), do best with objective evidence that spurs action. Ultimately, leaving a cheater is the goal. We all need different things to make that happen. Claiming superiority because you “did the work” suggests you have more work to do. Geez. [/quote]

You need to yell at the previous PP who started the "keep arguing with the lived experience of women on this thread" crap, negating my own, which is what prompted me to clap back. They're the one who came in hot like there was One True Way™ and they'd found it.

Follow the thread before you go making comments like this, or admit you just like stirring the pot. That's not about my lack of healing...[/quote]

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