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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Here’s the twist-  I’m the ex that moved back.

Trying to give the wife the benefit of the doubt, I posted from her perspective. DH has agreed not to be around me after she gave him an ultimatum.

It’s created an uncomfortable air in our friend group, especially when trying to plan events.  [/quote]

The problem here is YOU and not your ex-boyfriend's wife.  If you are posting as an imposter (pretending to be the wife), then I can only imagine how you are in real life and I can absolutely understand that the wife would feel uncomfortable in your presence.  How do you even know that they are going through a 'rough patch'?  Do you all gossip like this in your friend's group about everyone?  Such childish behavior!  You need to grow up, leave them alone and rebuild your own life.

Staying in touch with an ex-girlfriend can be complicated even in the best of marriages.  It doesn't have to be, but it can cause issues especially if the ex-girlfriend has not moved on or still harbors feelings for the person who has now moved on to a new love interest.  This scenario hardly ever works out well.  I feel that it can work out when both people have moved on and are in new relationship and truly have no romantic feelings for each other and all people involved are mature.  This does not seem to be the case here and you seem like the most immature of all.

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