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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s been about a week. [/quote]

You need to lose the main character syndrome. "about a week" probably means "less than a week", which isn't enough time for anyone involved to be done processing what happened. She almost lost her kid, and you got hurt in the process of preventing that tragedy. That's a LOT of grief. Plus, the social politics here aren't clear. Were you super close before, as in, you talked every day? Or were you "smile and wave" neighbors who rarely spoke?

This person has to overcome a lot, psychologically, before reconnecting with you. They may feel like sending flowers or a simple card isn't enough. It's certainly an awkward dynamic, made worse by the fact that you feel JD Vance-level entitled to control someone else's behavior and demand thanks. You chose what you chose and nobody owes you shit. That's the reality. I'm sure many people are glad you did what you did, and they might even be able to get their head around saying as much, if you refrain from being entitled and petty.

Do NOT use other connections to slam this person and talk chisme. You did the right thing. Don't stop now. Mind your business, focus on your healing, let go of the things you can't control (like other people's choices). [/quote]

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